Thursday, September 13, 2012

Marriage is...

This blog idea came after a phone call from my parents. They called to basically tell us about these weird things they do and if we did them to, then we were also weird. We had two out of three on their list. :) But anyway, it got me thinking. What is marriage? So here we go!

Marriage is... 

  • Committing your life to another person
  • Being able to compromise
  • Building forts in the living room when you have no other furniture 
  • Being willing to sacrifice 
  • Trying to guess how much your grocery bill will be 
  • Finishing each others sentences 
  • Being able to laugh at each other
  • Feeling completely comfortable with that person
  • Living with your best friend
  • Experiencing all those "firsts" together
  • Hopefully having a family together
  • Going to the bathroom with the door open (TMI?) :) 
  • Leaving each other notes around the house or in luggage 
  • Chasing thunderstorms and not being afraid of getting caught in the rain
  • Having inside jokes that are only funny to the two of you
  • Camping in your spare bedroom
  • Having someone who helps you grow as a person and grow as a couple
  • Learning to take care of someone else 
  • Being thankful you found your other half 
  • Having someone to enjoy your interests with 
  • Not being afraid of arguing as long as you're always prepared to say "I'm Sorry"
  • Being able to miss that other person, even if they're just in the next room
  • Holding hands whenever you feel like it 
  • Learning to budget 
  • Being able to not have to do or even say anything when you're together
  • A marathon, not a sprint
  • Having someone to watch "Friends" with and then quoting it non-stop
  • Running to the store at 10pm because your wife has a chocolate craving
  • Learning to divide up responsibilities/chores around the house 
  • Never going to bed angry
  • Having someone to dance with 
  • Completely ruining dinner or a dessert and being able to laugh at it 
  • Saying the exact same thing and the exact same time
  • Hard work, everyday 
  • Trying to find excuses to get the other person to do something you want 
  • An adventure 
  • Having someone to share your crazy dreams with, even if they don't make sense 
  • Singing as loud as you can on long car trips
  • Purposely wearing matching clothes 
  • Trying to find each others reflex spot, just for the fun of it
  • Making plans for your future and being able to adapt when they don't work out
  • Supporting each other in everything you do 
  • Having someone to kiss anytime you want 
  • Offering to drive when you're drugged on pain killers and bleeding from the mouth when your wife is faint from the sight of that blood 
  • Learning from the good examples your parents set for you 
  • Having someone to grow old with
  • Knowing that after a long day you can get in your easy clothes and cuddle on the couch
  • Respecting each other 
  • Endless back rubs :) 
  • Appreciating the little things in each other 
  • Creating memories
  • Making sure God always has a place in your relationship
  • A lifetime together 
  • Having someone to love and to love you back 

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