Monday, August 30, 2010

Time gone by

Well, about a month has past - just over actually - since "we" moved out to Council Bluffs. I say "we" since AJ's really the only one living out there still! It has been a tough month. I'm not sure either of us really knew what to expect other than the fact that it would be hard and we weren't going to enjoy being apart. We have been very fortunate in the fact that we've been able to see each other every weekend still, but as it is my busiest time of year at work and AJ in the first couple weeks of school in his first year, the weeks have not been fun. Every day and every night we are tested. The strength of our relationship is testing. Our patience is tested. Our sanity is tested! :) I do believe without a doubt that our relationship will be much better off from this time apart. I believe that we will learn to cherish each other more, love each other more and show each other our affection even more. I'm not sure I thought that was possible before our move, but now I am a firm believer. :) 

AJ and I are grateful to each and every one of you for your impact in our lives throughout this time. We are grateful for your friendship, love and support. And because of those things, we know we will be okay. We know we can remain strong.

I've been trying to pester AJ into writing a blog on his first couple days of school because I'm sure you're all dying to know about it! But he has been busy - apparently continuing to plan for his upcoming school days. :) As soon as I can though, we'll get something up for you. 

I'm not sure this is the best update, but just some thoughts as we reach our first month apart. May God continue to grant us the strength and patience we need. 

Sunday, August 22, 2010

Go Bulldogs!

This past weekend, AJ and I were both down in Tipton for the first wedding shower of Matt and Amber. We were excited to be able to spend the weekend together. AJ started his orientation on Thursday of that past week and had two in-service days before the first day of school on Wednesday. On Monday night, the staff of Riverside School District has a supper and spouses and families are invited to attend. AJ had asked if I could come, knowing it was a long shot. Originally, I didn't think I could get off work because I was suppose to be in St. Louis for part of that week, but when that meeting got canceled, I decided to take the vacation day and surprise AJ. So on Saturday afternoon, when discussing when he was going to leave on Sunday, I told AJ I would be following him to Council Bluffs. He was ecstatic! :)

So, on Sunday after lunch, we headed back West. We ran into a bit of a delay however. Just outside of Grinnell we came to a dead stop on I-80. Finally, we slowly made our way (two cars at a time) off the Grinnell exit. For cars ahead of the exit, they were having some of them turn around and come back off on the on-ramp! Well thank goodness for our GPS! When AJ turned it on, it had already picked up that there was a delay. It routed us on a gravel road parallel with I-80. We could see trucks and cars just sitting on the highway. It took us to the next possible on ramp but before we got back on, we drove on the overpass to see if we could see anything. Well, we could see it all. It was a huge accident - a camper driving eastbound had lost control and hit an SUV heading westbound. It was a mess. Thank God no one was killed! 

We went back on our way finally ahead of the traffic but it wasn't long before we drove past some of the flooding that had occurred near Baxter. Luckily, that didn't slow us down though. We finally made it back to Council Bluffs and it was nice to be back at the apartment, even if it was for a short time. 


On Monday, AJ headed off to his in-service day at the school and I stayed back at the apartment and did some work. That evening, I drove to Carson to meet AJ at the middle school and then we drove to the staff dinner together. The dinner was simple, but everyone was so friendly! AJ had originally told everyone I wouldn't make it apparently, so they were all glad to meet me! And I finally got to meet some of the people AJ had been telling me about. We had a great time meeting new people and getting to know some of AJ's co-workers. The superintendent introduced all the new staff and there were 14 total. While it was pretty low-key, it was exciting to be a part of it. AJ finally belongs to a school district and so far, all signs point to the fact that he's going to fit in great and really enjoy being there. I'm also excited to get some Bulldog clothes so I can start to support the district! :)   

Tuesday, August 17, 2010

Stormy Adventure

8/10/10

This summer has been a summer of storms! And both AJ and I love storms! However, many of the major storms kept missing us and we were always disappointed. Don't get me wrong, we hate the damage storms can cause, but we love the cool factor of them! The clouds, the rain, the lightening, the thunder - we love it all. After the past couple of storms though, I think AJ and I have both had our fair share of summer storms. 

A couple of nights ago AJ was hanging out in Ames with a friend when a storm came through. He decided to wait it out for a while and then once it looked like it had cleared up, he hit the road home to Council Bluffs. On the way however, he ran into another storm. He pulled off to the side of the road on an exit until it would lighten up. He said the rain was coming down so hard it couldn't hear himself talk and the wind was shaking his car so hard from both sides, he swears the rear of the car was moved some! He called freaked out!! And I don't blame him! He said, for all the complaining I do about missing all the cool storms,  I'm keeping my mouth shut from now on! Luckily, the storm passed and he made it home safely. 


Then tonight, Abbi and I were in Waterloo shopping and when we were on our way back to Grundy Center, we could see a huge storm coming. It was 86 degrees when we left Target. We literally drove into the storm and the dark clouds surrounded the car. We were loving it. It was still light enough outside we could see all the cool clouds and lightning. And boy, it was starting to lightning a lot! We decided to pull over so we could take some pictures and watch the lightning. We saw this HUGE bolt of lightning that stayed for a few seconds! It was crazy! However, after we took some pictures, the wind had picked up and the temp was now 78 degrees. We decided to hit the road and continue to Grundy Center. Soon it started to rain, lightly at first and then it eventually was coming down in sheets. It was blowing right towards the front of my car and at times I couldn't even see the front of my car! We pulled over a couple different times because it was raining so hard. By this time it was dark and the lightning was so bright it was going from daylight to the darkness over and over again. It was freaking my eyes out! And of course it was only making it harder to drive. Finally we pulled into someone's driveway just to get off the road for awhile. After that, Abbi took over driving the rest of the way and we finally made it back to Grundy Center. Then once we got here, we had to get all of our bags from shopping inside the house. It took us two trips and needless to say we were soaked! 

All in all, it was quite the adventure but I'd be okay if it never happened again! I'll be more than happy to experience that type of storm from the comfort of my own home next time, rather than in a car on the side of a country road. However, we did get some cool pictures! :) 







Tuesday, August 10, 2010

The Perfect Surprise Date Night

Last week had been a long week at work. I was up in Minnesota for a majority of the week working at Farm Fest and it was hot. And then I had a mountain of work to come back to on Friday. All in all, it was a long and stressful week - and AJ had let me vent all my frustrations to him. 

On Friday we texted back and forth throughout the day. Late in the afternoon, I drove into Cedar Falls to pick up some postcards to be mailed out. On my way, I called AJ to chat. He asked if my day was going any better and what my plans were for the night. He mentioned something about going out to dinner and a movie and I said, if only you were here. 

When I got back to my office I had a surprise waiting on my desk! AJ had sent a beautiful bouquet of roses! I was in shock! I texted him, "You got me flowers!?!" However, as soon as I hit send, I turn to see AJ walking into my cubicle!!! He had driven all the way from Council Bluffs to come surprise me! I couldn't believe it! He said my face was priceless! I was not expecting it all but it was an amazing surprise! 

And what I didn't know was as I was driving into Cedar Falls, AJ actually passed me on the road! He said he ducked his head a little and hoped I wouldn't see him! I don't even think I recognized the Grand Am! AJ couldn't believe that I didn't see him! And I'm glad I didn't because it would have ruined the complete surprise! :)  

AJ waiting patiently for me while I finished up the work day - which didn't end until after 5pm... I think I kept looking over at him because I still couldn't believe he was there! We called and made dinner reservations at the Brown Bottle and once I was off work, we took some time to spend down on Main St, Cedar Falls. We went to this little shop called Indulgence and had some chocolate appetizers! Then we drove to the Brown Bottle and once we got there, we asked to be seated outside on the patio - it wasn't too hot or anything - seemed like a perfect night! The host was like, "Going to chance the rain, huh?" And of course that was no big deal to us - plus whenever we want it to rain, it never does. :) 

So we were seated outside and when our waitress came out, she also said to us, "Taking a chance on the rain, huh?" We just smiled and said we'd be fine. We ordered our drinks and AJ ordered some appetizers as well and we sat and just enjoyed each others company. Before our meal came out, it did start to sprinkle some, but we just moved the table under the umbrella more and we were fine. Then our meal came out and it was delicious! We had never eaten at the Brown Bottle before but we quickly realized why it was such a popular place! The food was amazing!

We were close to finishing up our meal when the waitresses came outside to round up the chairs and put down the other umbrellas. We told our waitress she could bring us our check so we could get of their way before any rain came. It had gotten a little darker, cooler and windier. It started to rain again and as soon as we were handing our check back to our waitress and they were clearing our table, it started to pour! AJ and I loved it! We rain to the car and were soaked when we got there! We couldn't think it could have been any better for two people who love the rain! We laughed about how wet we were and hoped we'd drive off before the movie. 

We took off to Waterloo next to head to the movie theater. On the way, we listened to a CD AJ had burned of choral music. When we parked the car, AJ said we had to listen to one song before we could go in. It's a song called Cloudburst by Eric Whitacre. If you have never heard this song, you must listen to it. It's an amazing song - especially if you love the rain. And listening to it inside a car while it rained outside... okay, so we might be a couple of nerds, but it was simply awesome. 

Once we got inside the movie theater, we bought our tickets for Toy Story 3 and still had some time before we could go sit. So we decided to play some games in the arcade. We had a good time. Then we went to find some seats and were the first ones in the theater so we sat in the very back row! I think there were a total of six people in the theater which was awesome. And the movie was great! Very funny and relaxing after a long week. 

All in all, it really was a perfect surprise date night! I feel so blessed to have such an amazing husband! It was sad to see him leave again the next morning, but we'll be seeing each other again this weekend. So while the weeks might be long and stressful, the weekends have at least been enjoyable and we've been able to spend that time together.

Sunday, August 1, 2010

Council Bluffs Residents

Well, it's official. We are now Council Bluffs residents. We've been in our new apartment for one week now and finally getting settled in.

Last Sunday, my dad and AJ's parents arrived around 9am and we started to load up the trailer. Luckily it wasn't too hot out or anything. And boy did we work fast! We had everything packed and ready to go by 11:30! It took much less time than any of us expected I think! So we had some lunch on the floor of our empty apartment and were on the road by 1pm. And my mom and Daniel were nice enough to stay behind and finish cleaning the old apartment for us! They saved me some work to do on Thursday night and they did an outstanding job! :)

The rest of us hit the road and made it to Council Bluffs with no problems by about 5pm. Our parents went to relax in the hotel rooms and I dragged AJ out to Target to pick up some shelves and bathroom stuff. That night we ordered pizza and were all asleep at the hotel by 9:30pm! It had been a long day!

On Monday morning, we couldn't get into our new apartment until the leasing office opened up at 9. But we headed over there around 8:30 so we could find the building and a place to park the trailer. As soon as we could, we got into the office to sign our lease. Everything was pretty standard but we did find out that since we were moving in a week early (from August 1st) we were going to have to pay for that week. We weren't very happy about it but oh well. After getting everything signed, the lady handed us the building key (every building is locked) and said the guys were up in our apartment now finishing up some things and changing our locks - they would give us our new door keys.

Before we started to move anything upstairs (up three flights of stairs....) AJ and I went to check out the apartment. At first, we were not impressed. The maintenance guys still had work to do. They had their tools still in the apartment. None of the outlet/switches covers were on yet, there were no blinds for the patio door, the window in the bedroom had a huge crack - all the way through, it looked like someone had tried to kick out the deadbolt on the door and the kitchen floor was disgusting! Just to name some.  We were not happy. However, the guys seemed really nice and apologetic. They kept apologizing saying everything should have been done before we got there. And they let us start moving all our stuff in while they were still working. They kept telling us what condition the place had been in before they got all the work done after the last tenants. I can't even imagine. The good news is that we did get brand new carpet, some new doors and a new fridge! They actually were moving in the first on Monday. They also apologized for the kitchen floor and didn't understand why it didn't get cleaned. They said they would call the cleaning company and have them come take care of it this afternoon.

So we started hauling everything upstairs. It took a little longer this time since we had to go up three flights of stairs. It was pretty hot out too but luckily the building was shading the side we were moving in on, so that helped some. We finally got everything in and there were boxes everywhere. Luckily we had an extra bedroom so that was pretty much were everything went to start out with. We had some troubles getting the couches through the door, but other than that, really no problems. Meanwhile, the guys finished up everything they could - put the new fridge in, put on our new doors, put the blinds up, put all the covers on, put a plate on the door so we could lock it and called the cleaning company and the window guy. They were very helpful.

At lunch, we decided to head somewhere cool and sit inside and relax before our parents had to hit the road. It was a nice time and a good meal too! Our parents were on the road by 1:00pm roughly and the Qwest guy was here at the apartment waiting for us when we got back. He got our TV hooked up to Direct TV while AJ and I started to unpack some boxes. We also had the window guy stop by to get a measurement and he said a new window would be here in just a day or two. We spend the rest of the day just unpacking what we could. Finally around 5:30, a woman came from the cleaning company. She was also very friendly and apologized for not getting the floors cleaned. She told us that she thought the floor in the kitchen was going to be replaced so they didn't bother really cleaning it. But she worked as hard as she could and got it looking really nice. She did show us what she couldn't clean off - burn marks and cuts (from a knife?) on the floor. She also kept telling us what a mess the apartment was after the other tenants left. She said they spent 12 hours cleaning here and it looked like they never cleaned the toilets and the inside of the fridge was so gross, she wasn't even going to tell us what was in there. I can't even imagine!

On Tuesday, we tried to get some cleaning done - which was hard considering we left most of our cleaning supplies back in Waterloo so that apartment could get clean. And we got some more things unpacked. We also went grocery shopping and found out how much fun it is to climb the stairs trying to carry all our groceries in one load! We went shopping at this place called No Frills Supermarket and it was really cheap and right near our apartment! We loved it! We also did some laundry because one of the great things about this apartment is that we have our own washer and dryer!! :) However, as we were using the dryer, it kept smelling like something was burning. I check the sheets in the dryer and luckily they were fine. After we started the second load in the dryer, I noticed there was lint all over the floor! AJ asked if I had cleaned the lint trap so I said I would after that load. Well, when I went to do that, I discovered there was no lint trap! Hence the lint all over our floor! So that was it for laundry until we could get a new lint trap!

So we decided to try and cook some dinner. We had gotten some garlic bread at the store so AJ started to preheat the oven. However, when he went to put the bread in, a puff of smoke came out of the oven with a smell so bad it almost knocked AJ to his feet! He was NOT happy! I really wanted the garlic bread so we cooked it anyway. Once the oven had cooled down we took a look inside. It had obviously not been clean and black stuff was just caked on. Then we decided to try our luck at our dishwasher (another perk of this apartment)! Once they were done we took a look. The dishes were clean, but not extremely clean. AJ looked at the bottom of the dishwasher were he found pieces of food, a water bottle cap and cigarette butts, just to name a few... Again, we were not happy.

We sat down that night and filled out our move-in inspection sheet. We had to turn it in the next day and we made sure to mark down everything we've had problems with so far. On Wednesday we took it to the office and AJ asked if we could sit down and go over the form with them. We told them everything we've had problems with and they listened and took notes. They told us they would get someone up to fix the things we needed and they would call the cleaning company to come take care of the oven and dishwasher. AJ then said that while we appreciate everything that's been done and going to get done, we didn't think it was very fair we had to deal with these things while we were moving in - especially when we had to pay for the week. The lady said she would talk to her boss and see what she could do.

Unfortunately, I had to head back to Waterloo that night for work the next two days. I also got everything else taken care of at our old apartment and turned in our keys on Friday. I also got a call from AJ saying he had just heard back from the leasing office here in Council Bluffs. They were going to take $100 off our September rent and they agreed to replace our kitchen floor in September as well! We were very excited! Plus, we had our window replaced, we got our lint trap, we'll have a new door this next week and they were going to come and just do some finishing touches on the paintwork. They also said the cleaning people should be coming to clean the oven.

On Friday after work, I drove back here to Council Bluffs with all the rest of our cleaning supplies. On Saturday, we did a lot of cleaning. AJ - sick of waiting for the cleaning people - cleaned the oven and spent probably about two hours on it! But you should see the difference! We also cleaned the floors, did some dusting and just general cleaning. The place is looking great. It finally feels like a real home to us. I'll post some pictures below of the finished apartment and I'll also try to upload some to our photo sharing website so you can see the process. :)

Later this evening, I'm heading to Minnesota for a few days. I'm going to keep my dad company while Mom and Dan are in Guatemala and I'll be working at Farm Fest. I'm also excited because I get to stop in Estherville to see Amanda! :) Unfortunately for AJ I won't be back in Council Bluffs until the weekend of August 13th. But AJ has plenty of things to keep him busy now preparing for the school year and he starts orientation on August 12th. So begins the next part in our lives. We really have no idea how it's going to work but we're hopeful and I know AJ is eager for school to be starting.